Gay and female sex
Do Straight Women Survey Gay Porn? Yes, and Here’s Why
You know how tons of straight men enjoy watching woman loving woman porn and nobody bats an eye? The same doesn’t seem to use to women who watch gay porn.
This was made abundantly clear earlier this year when TikTok user @kirahofficial posted a video with with the text: “When I realized gay male p**n turns me on more than straight p**n.”
It was a seemingly benign observation (and characteristic TikTok fodder) that turned controversial when a rush of gay men accused Kirah of fetishizing the gay male community. “At first the responses were agreeing with what I said, but after about four hours, they got really nasty,” she tells InsideHook.
“I was really surprised that it blew up because I’d told my best ally that I view gay [male] porn and she didn’t think much of it,” she explains. “So when I posted it [on TikTok] I was expecting the equal response since I thought society was moving more toward [sex]-positivity than slut-shaming.”
Kirah’s video went viral and currently hosts over 35,000 comments and an alarming number of death threats.
“I really abhor the fact that this TikTok user got called out in such a negati
I'm a gay dude, but now I am feeling attracted to women
The dilemma I have acknowledged I was lgbtq+ since I was a boy, but recently I hold started having sexual feelings for women that I've spent a lot of time with at university. I went to a single-sex school and own never really had any female friends. I wonder if this might possess contributed to my belief that I was gay. Ever since spending moment with these women I haven't had as strong feelings for men and for the first time find myself fantasising about these women. Can one's sexuality change in such a limited time? Is this normal?
Mariella replies What's normal? So much of our behaviour is conditioned by our formative experiences and later circumstances that it's rigid to separate what we started out feeling and what developed along the way. I've famous parents announce their child is lgbtq+ at the age of three and others remain blind to their children's sexuality through adulthood. I've seen girls evolve from Barbie-addicted pink princesses to tattoo-covered teenagers with multiple piercings. As for boys, if I had a pound for every show-tune lover in brief pants who turned into a heterosex
I'm a Woman Who's Sleeping With a Gay Man (Yes, He's Still Gay)
For the past year, I’ve been having regular sex with a gay man I'll call Oliver. We were leading friends for years, attending many Pride parades and taking weekend hiking trips. But last year, after a very drunken bedtime, we slept together—and we still are today. He maintains that he still is, and always has been, a gay man.
After the first time, we were predictably awkward and British about it. We laughed a bit that it had happened, and then we agreed we shouldn’t do it again.
That lasted maybe three days. The first several months had all the expected exciting parts of sleeping with your best bud, but they were also tinged with this brand new fresh thing. Oliver had never been with a woman before, and he was completely unaware of what a vulva or a clitoris was. Fortunately, Oliver had the help of my feminist Orgasm Gap rants over the past five years, and took to the task of making me approach with admirable tenacity. One of the sweetest moments of that year was finding the manual She Comes First on his bedside table.
Men I’ve slept with before often have this fake bravado around sex, like they need
Do gay men ever include sex with women?
Dear Reader,
You ask a really complicated question! To reply your question plainly with the information that you’ve shared, it’s likely that some gay men undertake have sexual relationships with women to hide their true orientation, due to fear of coming out. Indeed, there are same-sex attracted men who feel pressured to mask their sexuality because of cultural, familial, religious, or personal convictions that being gay is wrong. It's also feasible that someone who identifies as gay may yearn to have sex with someone of another gender. However, "performance" when it comes to sex, which may be interpreted as arousal and possibly ejaculation, aren't determined exclusively by attraction. Unfortunately, while you've asked a great question, investigate in this area tends to be outdated, and lacking in some areas, like in the difference between feelings of arousal compared with sexual self. Much of what is known comes from surveys or anecdotal evidence, which may not be as scientific as a analyze study, but still can offer great perspective on the topic.
Sexually speaking, an erection or becoming aroused isn’t a measure of a person's sexual orientation. People